Yes, I'm kidding people.
So like if all the people you hate went there why would you want to anyway?
It would be nice to communicate to his son somehow that he’s being remembered & memorialized by a few dozen hockey fans he used to banter with over the years…..so long as he’s never ever ever, shown this thread and our dark senses of humour.
Just tell everyone you're not authorized to divulge how you know him because of the sensitive top secret nature of your interactions. They will understand.