MindzEye
Wayward Ditch Pig
It wasn't intended to be anything more than a cheeky remark to you because you gave me shit for discussing my car that cool or not I'm very happy and as lame as it might be, kinda proud of. With the kind of insults we all sling at each other I certainly didn't expect you'd be offended.
Fair enough
As for getting a fun/cool vehicle. At this point we're on a pretty strict budget. Right around $420-450 a month for a vehicle is about our limit. We absolutely need an SUV... So what would you have suggested?
Probably a certified used X-3/5. Though I question why anyone without rugrats would "absolutely need a SUV" especially a compact SUV. If it's about AWD, there are numerous 4 door options that would be at least as good as a CRV
I don't think its a matter of being "voluntarily old" but it's a matter of having different priorities. I'm almost 38 years old, just got married. Up until about 6-7 years ago I was all about fun and didn't give a shit about much else. Thanks to that I spent all my money partying and doing whatever sounded fun at the time. Ended up with bad credit, never owned a new vehicle, never owned a house... Nothing. Always had a kick ass stereo in my shitty car though.
I wouldn't conflate some of the things that made you awesome, with why you had shit credit. You can still continue to enjoy the shit out of life, maintaining similar priorities (though modified for being more "grown") and manage your finances well, etc.
Last week for the first time in my life I bought a brand new vehicle and very soon we'll be buying my first house. Those things are what is currently important to me as far as purchases go.
Fair enough and congrats. New vehicles are over rated though...anything that loses 15+% of it's value as soon as you take control of it, is a dicey financial move, and probably shouldn't be used as a "financial guide post". Though qualifying for one is a nice pat on the back I suppose.
Like I said, I drive like 60 hours a week for a living... Driving for fun just does not compute at this point. Someday if I'm in the right financial situation and not driving for a living maybe I'll have the desire for a toy to drive around in.
and that's fair. I've never driven for a living, so I have no clue what it not being fun while behind the wheel feels like. ****, even when I'm at work I'm in an F150 with 32 inch tires on it, pounding around open pit mine roads, rig roads, etc.