A. That "fight" was almost nothing. He made a joke that you didn't realize was a joke. He explained and you accepted the explanation.Oh I'm sure he's boycotting.
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B. WP seems like a guy that has super thick skin. So I don't see him boycotting.... especially during the happiest time in Leaf land.
3. I'm sure it's just coincidence and he's just busy.