If you hadn't spent the past decade trying to bone 22 year olds you might not be looking for a breeder at 38.If you want to have some kids, it isn't really an option unfortunately. There are lots of great 38 year olds looking for guys but there are also lots of 38 year olds who found guys and are mired in the IVF process and having a terrible time trying to conceive. I have a few friends in this boat. Kind of a nightmare.