Why? They create the conditions the players live within. The players aren't robots. If the organization creates a conflict with a player and escalates it to the point that they're doing petty shit like taking Vince's moms parking spot away the problem isn't as simple as "the player isn't respecting the fans"
I don't like how Vince went out either and he deserves for that to be part of his legacy. But the organization went pure clown show about his injury issue, including his new coach literally picking a fist fight with him, and he checked out. With that said, it's not on Vince that we had the worst GM in the league who allowed it to harm Vince's trade value that badly. We've seen numerous situations since in the NBA where GM's patiently insisted on getting appropriate value for their disgruntled star, and they got it. Injured & Disgruntled Kawhi got a fringe all star in his prime, a starting centre and 1st. Disgruntled as fuck Dwight Howard got a fucking bag of useful players including future all star Vucevic and 3 1sts. Even disgruntled Carmelo got a bunch of really useful players and some picks.
Why should we expect him to prostrate himself decades later when what really hurts isn't that he was traded, but that he got fucking nothing in return?
I'm not expecting him to get the type of love that We The North era Raptors earned, but there's a whole lot of organizational fuck up that led to Vince punking out. That he punked out is on him, but the org sure as fuck didn't make it seem like we wanted him anymore either and that chain of events started before the last few weeks of his tenure.